In order to BLOSSOM

     In order to Blossom, you have to be willing to step outside your comfort zone, You have to be willing to take accountability of your actions and learn from them, you have to be willing to change your way of living, the people you surround yourself with, the way you handle situations but most importantly you have to change the way you think. Your mind controls everything, it’s creates your aura, it creates your energy, and it process your thoughts and creates your mood. I hear people say “positives vibes only”, but in order to attract positive vibes, positive energy and receive an abundance of blessings, you have to manifest “positivity” in to your mind!

Being able to blossom, isn’t  something that happens over night, it’s comes with the growth process, it takes years to become the person you are destined to be, some people blossom quicker than others, and others takes longer because they do not know where to start or know how to change bad habits. Your current or past circumstances can either make you or break you!

Everyone is not built the same, so you can not compare yourself to someone who’s the same age as you, and who’s probably further than you in life. Many times we will think….

” what is she or he doing, that I am not doing?”

“We are the same age but she or he is doing better than me?”

“What am I not doing?”

“Oh I am so sick of working here, why am I not in my career?” Other 20, 25, 30 years old my age are doing this and that!”
We are constantly comparing ourselves to others, comparing & questioning our growth process, wondering why we haven’t Blossomed yet. We never think, oh maybe Their circumstances shaped them to go harder, maybe we are on two different paths, we are on two different journeys. For instance: when he or she was 21 years of age, he or she was working their business plan, planning their futures, while you were being lazy, too busy having fun, out shaking your ass, turning up, chasing men/women, just living in the moment or indecisive about career opportunities. Who knows!!! But Everyone has different motives, intentions and purposes.
Understanding, your time to Blossom starts the first day you decide to make a change in your life, from that moment you will begin to Blossom on to the person you were born to be!

In order to grow, you have to make a change!

QV, 2017

Daily Prompt:Blossom

Be better, Not Bitter

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Bitterness gets you no where, once you turn in to a bitter person, you’ll slowly start to self-destruct, killing yourself physically, mentally and spiritually. Bitterness turns in to misery and who wants to be associated with a Miserable person? That’s just toxic energy flowing around your aura and who wants to be around a toxic person? Understanding that, who you are around is, who you will become. No one has time to dwell over negativity, when you focus on the negativity, you stop seeing the positive message from the lessons the situations you’ve been in or is currently learning from. One, who grows from being bitter lives a better life.
Heal yourself, work on bettering yourself and be a better you!!!

There are people alive who are dead on the inside from being bitter. You are not fully living if you are stuck on negativity. Everything we face daily is a part of life, the beauty of life is facing every rough, tough, bad, good, easy, hard, happiness, sad, painful, hurtful, joy experiences and being able to look back those moments and say ‘wow I didn’t think I would have ever made it through this moment in life’ or look back and being proud of every obstacle you over came, just simply Realizing that you are stronger than you thought you were. By being bitter you are only hurting yourself and stopping your growth.

-QV

Daily Prompt :Bitter

Today’s Message, Too many broken people 

There are too many broken people in this world you see it all over social media, people are talking about disloyal people, they are saying fuck friends, family, hater, enemies. It’s like too many of you are walking around with this resentment towards whoever and you are wondering why things are not working for you because you are walking around with this hatred, walking around with this pain, walking around with this hurt, that you feel as if you need to carry.  

    Why do feel as if you have to carry someone else’s baggage?

When someone does something to you that’s their baggage.

Why do you have to hold on to it? Why must you let them rent space in your mind, to think about all the negative things he/she has caused.

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No More Fears, It’s Time to Conquer!

To CONQUER one’s fear is to challenge it, we all have Fears that slow us down or stop us from Achieving our Dreams, Goals and pursuing Careers. No one is perfect, we all make mistakes and we all have to start somewhere. You are only defeating yourself when you let fear hinder your full potential. Recognize your fears, Mark them and then CONQUER them. Nothing happens overnight, everything takes time. All it takes is a first step!!

-QV, 2017

Daily Prompt: Conquer

The Swimmer Who Beat His Total Speed Time Record

My son name is Vince S., He has been competing in the Metro swim League a little over a year now. The Metro Swim League is a Swim Meet tournament all New York City after-school Clubhouses’ Swim teams participate in. The Swim Meets are once, twice or even three times a month. Vince has been a member of the Boys Club of New York clubhouse since 2011.

Fall of 2015, Vince was given a great opportunity to join the Gerry Clubhouse Tiburones swimming team. As a beginner, Vince was not comfortable swimming in deep water, He was not as confident because he was not as fast as the other kids. Vince started to reconsider his decision, not sure if joining the team was a good idea. Over time, As Vince started to learn the techniques of becoming a great swimmer. He became determined and dedicated to beat his own time speed RECORD, Making that a goal at each meet.

Meet after meet, Vince would do an amazing job, Improving his skills every chance he got, from being determined and dedicated to his craft, He started to pick up his time.

Last year, Vince came in second to Last or Last place in 50free, 50fly and 100IM, But NOT THIS YEAR!!! At each meet, Vince started to slowly beat his time speed RECORD. March 4th, 2017 was the Metro Swim league championship, Vince came in 1st place back to back and 2nd place, Beating his original 50free, 50fly and 100IM speed time. He received two ribbons for being in the Top 10, coming in at 9th and 10th place, beating his original Speed Time RECORD in total.

Vince dreams of one day becoming a professional swimmer, In hopes of joining the Olympics and beating Michael Phelps RECORD.
Here’s a Recap of The Metro Swim League Championship click link below

Daily Prompt: Record

Murmuration Of Birds: Two Biggest Fears!

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Whenever I am underneath a MURMURATION of Birds, I become very nervous, Hoping that none of them poop on me.

Whenever I am underneath  a MURMURATION of Birds with open food, I become a little scared, Thinking one bird would notice the food in my hand from a far, Turn around and aim towards me while the rest follows.

The thought of being chewed up, Attacked or Surrounded by Birds gives me the creeps, Especially in New York City , The birds are very tough and not friendly, They do not care, They are not afraid and They are aggressive, A MURMURATION of Birds in NYC has no problem flying so low almost knocking you upside your head,  Try to take your food, NO NO NO…..I do not want any problems with them!!

I do not like to see, Be underneath or Around a MURMURATION of Birds it really freaks me out!

~QV, 2017

Daily Prompt: Murmuration

 In Response to Today’s Prompt “Pattern”


Breaking PATTERNS are very difficult, As you get older, You have to learn how to change the way you think, The way you present yourself and the way you handle situations. In order to do so, It requires you to break current life PATTERNS that you are 1)Comfortable with, 2) Use to and 3) live for.

PATTERNS are habits people adapt to over time, We are not born with them, We learn them, It could be learned from Society, Environments, Lifestyle, People you associate yourself with, The places you hang out at, The person you date, Family, School, past life experiences or situations etc. These PATTERNS you create are very easy to transition into but so hard to transition out of. But all PATTERNS of life are changeable, You just have to be willing to take the effort.

Anything is possible to change, When it comes to Self-Elevation.

-QV,2017

Daily Prompt:Pattern